Finding answers in our African traditional method may involve seeking advice from our elders or visit to the native witch doctor. The best way is to ask and receive from the Maker -God.

If God is for us, who can be against us?...who shall separate us from the love of Christ?...For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 8:31-39.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek His will in all you do, and He will direct your paths.
Proverbs 3:5

We can gather our thoughts, but the LORD gives the right answer.
Proverbs 16:1

We can make our plans, but the LORD determines our steps.
Proverbs 16:9.